I have to wonder sometimes at the
audacity with which we are judged by others. Of course it happens to us each
day and we are even guilty of it ourselves but nowhere can it be more alarming
then when we feel our children’s very lives judged because they are severely
disabled. As a parent providing round the clock care for my son for over fifteen
years there are many constants in what has become our tiny, nearly hermetic
life. Unfortunately judgment is one of them.